Three day mens retreat

May 11 to 14, 2025

3 days that could
change everything.

A men’s-only retreat for deep transformation. Through powerful ceremonies, breathwork, cold immersion, and guided experiences, you’ll unlock clarity, confidence, and lasting growth. Set on a private lakefront estate, this is your chance to reset, reconnect, and rise.

What to Expect:

Join us for a joy filled retreat with medicine, stillness, nature and beautiful views. You'll stay on a private estate and enjoy healthy, delicious food with a group of men joining to create lasting meaningful change.

Designed for those wanting to create and step in to their “next” with clarity, strengh and dirction.

Details:

Location: Set on a stunning 4.5 acres  private hilltop property in southern California.. This location is the perfect setting for a close to home experience.

Activities: Nature, guided breathwork and cold plunge processes, cacao ceremony, medicine ceremony and intentional conversation.

Inclusions: All hearty and healthy meals and accommodations are part of the package, ensuring a worry-free experience.

We recommend and include post retreat integration to take the retreat home and on the road.

May 11 - 14, 2025

Retreat schedule will begin with checkin Sunday evening May 11th, the retreat schedule and works will begin Monday May 12th at 8:30 AM and conclude Wednesday, May 14th by 1:00 PM.

Investment:

Bed in shared room:
$1,900
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Private room:
$2,600

Payment plans available at checkout with Affirm

Limited space available. Click register to fill the registration form and secure a spot or reach out to me directly via email or Whatsapp. If you want to organize your own group for a local or destination retreat, please reach out to me for a custom event.

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Questions, answered.

  • This retreat is designed to welcome Jewish Men who are growth oriented.

    We value integration above what a 3-day retreat can teach; we believe that when done right benefits can last a lifetime.

  • This retreat is designed for men, with a curriculum and focus on empowering men with challenges to concour and create a successful and lasting impact. Look out for our retreats designed for men and women.

  • We sit in ceremony to find clarity and direction. Wachuma (San Pedro) supports that. It aligns with how we grow: grounded, clear, lasting.

    This isn’t a “trip.” You stay present. You stay in your body. It’s not about visuals.

    It helps you drop deeper. Into presence. Into awareness. Into connection. Into ‘self’.

    It lets men step out of old patterns. Without fear. Without overwhelm. What opens up is real and it stays with you.

    This isn’t about escaping. It’s about meeting life more fully.

    Wachuma supports creating space for real integration. So what you find doesn’t fade. It becomes part of how you live.

    We also close the retreat with a Cacao ceremony. A soft and kind go-home blessing.

    If you have any questions or concerns about the medicine protocol of our retreat please reach out with any questions.

  • Not really. This retreat is designed to reset, recharge and gain a deep sense of clarity, strength and rejuvenation.

    What makes this retreat special is the unique moments gained from a group setting. Each person, guests and staff, bring their own magic. Therefore we expect everyone to participate in each part of the scheduled programming.

  • We don't take ourselves too seriously and we believe that growth can be gentle and joyous!

    We collaborate with like minded individuals who hold a shared value of: "integration is key".

  • Plan to be fully present. Pack comfortable clothing and personal items that support you.

  • The estate comprises of two homes + a garage & loft. The main house has 1 luxury master suite and 4 additional bedrooms.

    The second home has 2 bedrooms and 1 bathroom. Attached to the second home is a garage with a window-filled loft on its second floor that has 8 comfortable beds.

  • We offer nourishing Kosher mehadrin meals tailored to meet a variety of dietary requirements.

    All meals are freshly prepared and feature a selection of pescatarian, healthy, and delicious options designed to satisfy and complement the work we're doing.

    Please let us know in advance if you have any specific dietary needs.

  • My goal is to create an intimate group dynamic. Past retreats had ranged between 6 and 16 participants.

  • No! I believe in deep connection by being “you”.

  • We understand life happens. Our policy does not include any refunds after confirmation. We recommend all participants to purchase separate travel insurance. Some offer “cancel for any reason”.

Your Hosts.

We are committed to offer a space where you can experience joy and connection. It is an honor to invite you in. Don’t hesitate to reach out to us with any questions.

Motty Kenigsberg

Motty Kenigsberg is a heart-centered empath, dedicated to showing up with open arms and guiding you on your journey. He blends deep compassion with a grounded, practical approach as an integrative coach.

Direct contact: Email or Whatsapp.

Joel Katz

Joel, a dedicated support for many with over a decade of self-work experience. He is known as a “space holder” with a deep understanding of what it takes to bring the experience to life.

Direct contact: Email or Whatsapp.

JJ Duchman

JJ has over a decade of experience helping men break through barriers like addiction and childhood trauma. He guides them toward honesty, healthy intimacy, and deeper connection—empowering them to step into their true power.

Direct contact: Email or Whatsapp.

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